“Saul’s sons were Jonathan, Ishvi and Malki-Shua. The name of his older daughter was Merab, and that of the younger was Michal. 50 His wife’s name was Ahinoam daughter of Ahimaaz. The name of the commander of Saul’s army was Abner son of Ner, and Ner was Saul’s uncle. 51 Saul’s father Kish and Abner’s father Ner were sons of Abiel. 52 All the days of Saul there was bitter war with the Philistines, and whenever Saul saw a mighty or brave man, he took him into his service.” 1 Samuel 14.49-52
How interesting that we seem to have a pause in the narrative to give a brief history lesson on the genealogy of Saul. Mentioned here are his three sons—we’ve already heard about Jonathan—and two daughters, including his younger daughter, Michal, who will eventually become the wife of David. Also listed are Saul’s wife, the commander of his army, his father, and the father of the army’s commander. Lastly, the writer tells us that Saul was always at “bitter war” with the Philistines and that he continually conscripted “brave men” into his service.
Coming off Thanksgiving, I can’t help but reflect on my own family. Twenty of us gathered from my wife’s side of the family, missing only one niece who is overseas. I could recount their histories, share stories, and describe their roles in life and within the family. In a similar way, the writer (Samuel) provides background and context into the family and clan of Saul. It’s worth noting that Michal, Abner, and especially Jonathan will play significant roles in the story ahead.
Families matter. They serve a purpose in our lives and influence the dynamics of our relationships. Some family members bring joy and positivity, while others may cause difficulty or pain. Yet, the people around us shape who we are. My parents and sister have been a positive and influential force in my life, helping me grow as a man and a Christian. Likewise, my wife and children have enriched my life in immeasurable ways. I’m blessed to have a family I love and who loves me.
However, this isn’t always the case for everyone. It wasn’t necessarily true for Saul, and it may not reflect your situation either. Family dynamics are complex, to say the least.
But as believers, we belong to a family that transcends our biological families: the Church. In Christ, we have brothers and sisters who not only support us but also love us unconditionally. United by the Spirit, we share a common purpose to make disciples and build God’s Kingdom for His glory. This spiritual family, while not perfect, can play a vital and healthy role in our lives as children of God.
Last night, for example, I served at the First Methodist Waco college ministry. As I looked out over the crowd, I saw a family. I saw people who needed each other, leaned on their community, and benefited from the love and fellowship they shared.
Although there will be much drama in King Saul’s family, the basic premise of families is a gift from God. Even more profound is our incorporation into the family of God. Through this family—the Church—we can grow together as believers, pursuing a shared purpose and love in Christ.
I hope you have a family that you love and that loves you in return. Whether it is your biological family or the Church, thank God for them today. Let your family reflect God’s perfect design and purpose.
“O Lord God, how thankful I am for my family. I thank you for my family of origin, for my ancestors, and for my immediate family—my wife, children, and grandson. I am grateful for the ways they reflect your grace and love in my life. I also thank you for the family of God—your Bride, the Church. Holy Spirit, come now and fill us with your love. Help us to love and serve one another in a way that glorifies you. For you are good and your love endures forever.” Amen